It's "Elmteligence"

I have changed the name of my blog because so many of you seem to think that I don't have a clue. Since there are so many Elmisms out there to describe my state of mind I decided to go with my favorite. Yes Vincent you are the winner, It's Elmteligence is my favorite. I know you meant it in a sarcastic way but I thought it was funny and it truly just grew on me.

I was going to do a whole bunch of posts about who said and did whatever but I have decided not to go there. I really does not matter anymore. This was a sad experience for allot of people and I am personally tired of looking at this train wreck. This blog was never meant to be about a murder case. I never asked for anyone to email me about it. I was never a huge fan of any of those involved.

I was never for one "team" or the other. I just kind of was placed in that niche because I never "attacked" Joe or Harlow. I always believed that you were innocent until proven guilty and I still do. But I guess that theory is to high brow for some to understand. There is still plenty about this whole mess that has not been revealed and I guess it will never be revealed. So now I will blog about what really interests me and if you want to know what that is stick around. If you don't care there are plenty of other places to go and talk about this murder case.

This is Elmysterio and I'm out.

Guilty

Harlow Cuadra was found guilty on all counts. It is over for Harlow.

You can read about it here and here. If you want to celebratre you can do that here and here.

Let’s take marriage out of the equation.

In the fight for equal rights in California for same sex couples a new idea has been placed on the table. Funny thing is I and a couple of friends have talked about this before. With most religions strongly against same sex marriage the idea of taking marriage out of the constitution and putting it squarely in the realm of religion seems like the right thing to do. Thus taking religion out of the equation.

Under this new plan the state will only recognize civil unions and all religious marriage ceremonies will only be recognized by the church but not state law. In other words you need to register your civil union with the state and if you want to get married in the church it will only be valid if you have a registered civil union. That will take religion out of the equation and make it a non-religious issue. That will make all of those who chose to have a civil union equal under the law.

Under this new plan it will not effect current marriages. They will be grand fathered in and not effected. Only new civil unions and new marriages will be effected by this change. It makes sense to me and anyone who has an issue with that is clearly against equal rights for all. The term marriage will no longer be a recognized legal term any longer in the state. The church will no longer have a role in state policy. The seperataion of church and state is already a part of the constitution.









Civil Union recognized by the state.








Marriage recognized by the church

Civil Union + marriage in church recognized by the state

Simple problem solved. Common sense over rules hate.

Don't worry the truth won't hurt

I am only going to say this once. I am going to tell the truth about who told me what and when I was told it. I have every email that I was sent and every instant message that I receieved since the start of all of this. I am going to wait until after this trial is over before I spill it all.